Every Other Weekend Custody Schedule
In an every-other-weekend schedule the kids live mainly with one parent and spend every second weekend โ usually Friday and Saturday nights โ with the other. It is one of the most familiar arrangements, and it is often extended with a midweek visit.
What two weeks look like
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S
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Week 1
A
A
A
A
A
A
A
Week 2
A
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A
A
B
B
A
Parent A's homeParent B's home
86/14
split of nights
12 + 2
nights each, every two weeks
2
handoffs every two weeks
12
nights in a row, at most
How it works
- Parent A has the school week and every other weekend.
- Parent B has the kids from Friday after school to Sunday evening every second weekend.
- Over two weeks that is twelve nights with Parent A and two with Parent B.
Who it tends to suit
- Parents who live far apart, or when one parent's work makes weekdays impossible.
- Keeping school nights in one home.
What to plan for
- The weekend parent can go twelve days without an overnight.
- The other parent rarely gets a free weekend with the kids for fun, only school routine.
Tips from families who use it
- Adding a Wednesday overnight (every other weekend plus midweek) moves the split to about 71/29.
- Extending the weekend to Monday morning school drop-off avoids a Sunday evening handoff.
- Holidays and summer breaks are often split more evenly than the school year.
Set up every other weekend in Fairweek
Pick every other weekend, check the next two weeks against real dates, and invite your co-parent with a code. You both see the same calendar, holidays alternate by year on their own, and swaps take effect only when the other home says yes. Free for both of you.
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Other schedules
- 2-2-3 Custody Schedule
- 2-2-5-5 Custody Schedule
- 3-4-4-3 Custody Schedule Explained
- Week On, Week Off Custody Schedule (Alternating Weeks)
- 5-2 Custody Schedule
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This guide explains a common arrangement; it is not legal advice. Your parenting plan or court order decides your schedule โ talk to a family lawyer or mediator about your situation.